Mode of Love

OF LOVE

Regulate your nervous system, release the subconscious beliefs keeping love out of reach, and become the version of you who naturally attracts and keeps extraordinary love.

ATtract the love you want

A method I built from my own experience...

BEFORE.

Just two months before I met my husband, William, I had just gotten out of a terrible relationship. It had really affected how I felt about myself and it made me feel like I was hard to love. I was attracting the same kind of people, and losing myself in relationships. I was carrying a limiting belief that the love I actually wanted probably just wasn't going to happen for me. I knew what my patterns were, I just couldn't change them.

AFTER.

I did a deep dive into the science behind connection and relationship psychology. Then I created a method to release what had been holding me back. I unblocked my limiting beliefs, I visualized my life with my dream partner, and I fell so in love with my own life that I genuinely stopped needing anyone else to complete it. Two months later, I went on my first date with William. I wish I had known this method earlier. But it all happened in perfect timing.

3 Hidden blocks keeping love out of reach

UNRESOLVED Subconscious BELEIFS

You are attracted to what is familiar, not what’s actually good for you. Beliefs like "the love I want doesn't exist for me," "I'm too much," or "love always ends in pain" run in the background, shaping every connection before it even begins.

A nervous system NOT YET CALIBRATED FOR safeTY

When you have only ever known love that feels anxious, intense, or uncertain… secure and healthy love can feel wrong, or even passionless and boring. Until your nervous system learns that healthy love is normal and safe, it will keep resisting what you actually want.

AN IDENTITY THAT HASN'T CAUGHT UP YET

You can consciously want a loving relationship and still not believe that you deserve it. The relationships you experience can sometimes be influenced by what feels familiar or possible for you, this is why the love you're hoping to call in can feel out of reach. Identity based manifestation is one of the key aspects that most love programs completely miss.

When healthy love finally feels safe...

Internal CHANGE

(1.) The belief that you won’t get the love you want releases.

(2.) You stop feeling anxious about what could go wrong.

(3.) You stay grounded and stop losing yourself in love.

(4.) You stop feeling like you have to earn love.

(5.) You feel confident and worthy of what you want.

(6.) You attract love naturally, without feeling desperate or guarded.

what changes in real life

(1.) The people you attract are different: available, aligned and secure.

(2.) Healthy relationships feel safe and exciting instead of boring or stressful.

(3.) You feel truly chosen.

(4.) You can open up without worrying about being too much.

(5.) You stop settling for less than what you want.

(6.) The love you have always wanted starts feeling attainable.

WordS from STEPH

"I used to think that I had to wait for love to feel complete, but I realized it was the other way around. Love came into my life when I started feeling whole within myself and stopped searching for someone to fill a void. Mode of Love teaches you how to feel whole and complete before you call in love, which changes everything."

How to get the love you’ve always wanted

The vision: Get clear on how you want love to feel

Identifying your limiting beliefs

Releasing the past (EFT)

Rewriting your love narrative

The Elevated Self

Expanding your capacity to receive love

Mode of Love Program,
Inside the membership

A STEP BY STEP pATH to your dream RELATIONSHIP

Mode of Love, included in the MODE membership, guides you through a clear 10-module path. Your subconscious beliefs release, your nervous system regulates, and love becomes a natural consequence of who you are, not something you have to chase. The membership also gives you ongoing practices (250+) and live challenges to stay supported long after the program ends.

SUPPORTED BY SCIENCE-BACKED TOOLS

Inside the membership, you will work with science-backed tools such as EFT tapping, Elevations™, walking Elevations™, somatic practices, guided visualisation, guided journaling, and nervous system regulation practices.

DESIGNED TO BE EASY, WITH SUPPORT BUILT IN

You can practice at your own pace, on all your devices, revisit sessions as needed, and feel supported through community. You also get direct Q&A access to Steph and her team. You are never doing this alone.

START CALLING IN YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP

You are one click away from everything you’ve ever wanted

Annual

$37/month

$600 $450 billed annually - cancel anytime

START MANIFESTING

Monthly

$50/month

Become your Elevated Self

IN JUST 10 mins a day

OF LOVE

Science-backed tools to release the beliefs, emotional patterns, and nervous system responses keeping love at a distance...

... to finally become the version of you who naturally attracts and keeps the love you've always wanted.

Manifest your dream RELATIONSHIP

What women are experiencing inside of MODE...

I started your meditations after a really difficult breakup. They helped me finish school, get my license, and build a successful massage business in just a year. I also met my boyfriend after doing the original meditations, and our relationship has continued to blossom as I’ve gone deeper into your work. Thank you endlessly ❤️

Colette

Cheyenne

I was getting frustrated in my relationship, but after doing a mirror meditation, everything shifted immediately. It made me realize how much the world reflects our inner thoughts

Maya

After four weeks of consistently practicing your morning meditation, I manifested exactly what I had been visualizing. I’m in Bali and met someone exactly as I imagined. It happened just like I pictured. What you’ve created is magical

Claire

About 3 weeks ago I did the connection elevation and created a vision board around my dream relationship. A week later, I met someone who is amazing in every way I imagined 😍 It’s still new, but it’s been the most fun and exciting few weeks!

Sarah

Beyond grateful for the connection elevation! 🫶🌷

Georgia

The negative thoughts that used to spin nonstop in my head have finally quieted down, and I’m replacing them with kind, positive ones.

I’ve never felt this grounded before, and it feels amazing. Something huge happened this week: I looked at my body in the mirror with love for the first time in almost two years and I didn’t cry. I used to avoid mirrors completely. This week, I tried on bikinis. Actual bikinis. Something I hadn’t dared to do in nearly a decade.

Loana

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Mode of Love about finding a partner or is it inner work?

Both, but we approach it in the right order. First, Mode of Love works on the subconscious identity, emotional patterns, and nervous system capacity that have been shaping your experience of love. When those shift, the relationship you call in, and the way you show up inside one, changes naturally. You cannot chase your way to the love you want. But you can become someone who naturally attracts it.

How is this different from therapy or books on attachment theory?

Most of us already understand our patterns. We know our attachment style, we've read the books and maybe even been to therapy. What's often missing is releasing the limiting beliefs and patterns that have been keeping you stuck, and teaching your nervous system to feel safe in your dream relationship. Mode of Love works at the root level where patterns are formed: the nervous system and subconscious identity. This approach goes deeper than basic understanding and elevates your identity to become the version of you who naturally attracts the love you want.

What if I'm already in a relationship?

Mode of Love includes specific guidance for those already in a relationship. Whether you want to deepen the intimacy you have, stop losing yourself, or understand what's been keeping you from feeling fully safe and chosen, the program will work for you too.

Is Mode of Love a standalone purchase?

Mode of Love lives inside the MODE membership alongside Mode of Body, Mode of Money, and all our programs, practices and challenges. When you join MODE, you get everything in one membership.

What tools does the program use?

EFT tapping, Elevation™ visualisations, somatic practices, Elevated Self Work, guided journaling, nervous system regulation, and subconscious reprogramming. Each tool has a specific purpose in the program and they all work together to compound your results.

How long does the program take?

Mode of Love is self-paced across 10 modules. Each module is designed to be able to be completed in a few days. We recommend moving through one module at a time, but you can spend a full week on one module if it feels particularly important for you. Some modules will integrate quickly. Others you may want to come back to. There is no rushing this.

I’m not super spiritual… will this be too "woo woo" for me?

So many women in our community love of MODE because it can meet you wherever you are. Everything inside Mode of Love is grounded and practical. We work with the subconscious and the nervous system because that's where lasting change happens, but always in a way rooted in science. EFT, visualisation, somatic work, and nervous system regulation are evidence-informed techniques. You won't be told to just think positively. You'll be given practices that actually work.

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If you’ve been doing everything right but love still feels out of reach…
This is for you.

MANIFEST YOUR DREAM Relationship